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Unfortunately, in these modern times, there's often a time or communication's gap between fathers and sons that's hard to bridge. Many fathers find it hard to be with and to talk to their sons, much as they would like to. The Freemasonry craft bridges that gap by bringing fathers and sons together in the Craft and through shared experiences and shared values.

Afarnily's involvement in Freemasonry Craft can go beyond the father-to-son relationship. There are Masonic youth organizations for the children including opportunities for both boys and girls. These organizations offer Masonic values designed to support the strong family values parents should have already instilled in their children. They offer special programs that focus on the needs of youth including social, athletic and self awareness programs.

There are organizations for adult women including Eastern Star - a world class organization for women to which members of the craft may also be members.

But Freemasonry is foremost a Fraternity for men. As a result, every father hopes the day will come when he will stand with his son just as his father stood with him as he was welcomed into the Craft.

Talk to your father about becoming a member of the Craft. Ask him what the Fraternity has meant to him and what you will be able to give and get by belonging and being active in Freemasonry.

He'll be happy to get you a petition. Or surprise him; find another Mason, submit the petition, and then let your father know what night you're to receive the First Degree.

Freemasonry. It's something for the whole family.


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Are there women Freemasons?

No; for a woman to become a real Freemason is as impossible as for a man to become a mother, a leopard to change his spots. A female duly elected, properly prepared, initiated and obligated, passed and raised, who signed the bylaws of a regularly constituted lodge, would not be a Freemason, as all which had been done with her would be illegal, and one illegally initiated is not a Freemason. The third of the Old Charges, foundation law of the Craft, states emphatically: "The persons admitted Members of a Lodge must be good and true Men, free-born, and of mature and discreet Age, no Bondmen, no Women, or immoral or scandalous Men, but of good Report.

There appear to have been at least two historic instances in which a woman was initiated. Prior to the formation of the first Irish Grand Lodge, an Irish lodge, meeting in the home of Arthur St. Ledger, First Baron Kilmayden and Viscounte Doneraile, had its privacy invaded accidentally by the Honorable Elizabeth St. Ledger, later Mrs. Richard Aldworth. The lodge members decided the only way to preserve secrecy was to obligate her; she was, therefore, duly obligated both as an Apprentice and as a Fellowcraft<p>. The second instance concerns Helene, Countess Hadik Barkoczy, born 1833, "made a Mason" in Lodge Egyenloseg, warranted by the Grand Orient of Hungary. The last of her race, at her father's death she was permitted by the Hungarian courts to take the place of a son, receiving his full inheritance. In this was an extensive Masonic library in which she became much interested. In 1875 the lodge mentioned admitted her!

The Grand Orient of Hungary took immediate action on this "breach of Masonic vow, unjustifiably conferring Masonic degrees, doing that which degrades a Freemason and Freemasonry, and for knowingly violating the statutes." The Deputy Master of the lodge was expelled, the officers of the lodge had their names struck from its rolls, and the members were suspended for various periods of time. To the honor of the Grand Orient be it said, its final pronouncement-apart from these merited punishments--was unequivocal. There are a dozen or more stories of other women "made Masons" but none of them withstands critical examination.

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